1) I'm your user as well.
2) I didn't try to create any dramas and, frankly, I don't care about your relationships with calyx
3) I'm pursuing my own interests - I need a good phone. Atm I'm self-building Calyx (their own build is not up to my expectations) and I'm experimenting with building Graphene with microG.
4) I'm an Asperger and I see something familiar in you. You may need to seek an advice.