Yes, the lack of a functional and sustained social circle, along with chronic suffering (not using the word 'depression' since I have not been officially diagnosed) has left me repeatedly checking reddit for that orange message button, and hackernews for a delta in karma or replies. This is a consequence of seeking novelty and new experiences, which is promoted by dopamine. I am well aware of it, I am conscious of it when it happens, and yet I feel that I have no control over my actions when I do that.

I frequently cold turkey it, or nuke my accounts in an attempt to stop this, but to no avail.

I have been addicted to other processes, I know that I can cut them by substituting with other, less unhealthy addictions, at the moment, I am trying to get myself addicted to math books. It seems to be working, I managed to get out of bed with ease.

I am currently working through MacDonald's "Linear and Geometric Algebra", and Pinter's "A book of Abstract Algebra". The next books will probably be Mendelson's "Introduction to Topology", and MacDonald's "Linear and Geometric Calculus".

By the time I wrote this reply, I have already glanced at my karma - on the upper right corner of my screen - four times, even though I am well aware that it is static and can not change until I reload the page.

It is real and it affects those who lack self control the most including me. I can spend endless hours researching the topics of my interest and listen to the music at the same time.

I feel like "self control" isn't a helpful framework to describe what is happening.

It seems like technology is just exploiting instinctive ways we interact with the world and learn.

This matters because it is not an individual problem of low will power etc. We will understand that the way the internet and social media interact with people just fundamentally creates false connections and impressions and generally confuses our unconscious mind.

Don’t sweat it. We used to have to go to the library or book shop to do that and buy CDs which was a pain in the ass and expensive.

I’d rather be an internet addict than go back to those days.

That was easier to control because you had to get there. Now the internet is the same location as work and hobbies so its hard to avoid.

Not me. More energy less overconsumption. Free balance

I think the world situation has pushed people into escaping with online media. I don't think think most of these dopamine detox/digital addiction framed arguments have the causation the right way around.

People aren't feeling bad because of continuous scrolling on news and social media. People are looking for something to take their minds off whatever difficulty they are facing.

People should do what they think will help but I don't think the framework of addiction is the right way to approach it. You don't have withdrawal and assuming the compulsion to return is because of the content and not because you want to escape holds you back from addressing the real issues.

Doing a "dopamine fast" will also force a person to reevaluate their current situation and not escape using tech.

The outcome will be positive but I feel that term addiction should be limited to things that seriously impact your life in a negative way.

Bad habits aren't the same as addiction.

The same can be said about other addictions, especially substances or alcohol: they provide an (unhealthy, dangerous) escape from other stressors in the person's life.

Alcohol, tobacco and other narcotics can and often easily do create a certain level of physical dependence on their consistent use, even after what triggered starting with them in the first place has stopped being the case. This is not the same as escaping the need to think about personal difficulties in life by developing a habit of randomly browsing the internet. Some of the motivations behind the two sets of escapist activities are similar but the physiological aspects are very different.

Have you never been at a social event like a dinner or a party, where you are in a good mood and have plenty of nice people to talk to, and felt compelled to check your phone?

Sure, and so? Like many mild to moderate psychological habituations, it's not quite comparable to the persisten chemical addictions created by certain narcotics

An alcoholic, or a heroin addict or even many heavy smokers are going through their own special types of hell that are capable of literally killing their physical health or taking their lives, and it trivializes them to compare these things to someone having a heavy social media-checking habit.

The existence of a greater social ill doesn't preclude the existence of another.

I tend to think the harm from social media is more related to negative externalities: i.e. political instability, loss of social cohesion, and the spread of misinformation. If the vector for those problems is something which is extremely habit forming to the point that people can't go two hours without engaging with it while in a healthy social environment, that doesn't seem like something to dismiss to me.

> People aren't feeling bad because of continuous scrolling on news and social media. People are looking for something to take their minds off whatever difficulty they are facing.

It can be both right? For instance with substance abuse, part of the "vicious cycle" is that when addicts are feeling stressed, they reach for their drug of choice rather than actually solving the problems which are making them stressed.

It's absolutely both to some degree. When someone's trying to distract themselves on the web and then reads headlines about some new desaster or another case of corruption it's not going to improve their mental state. There's always something bad happening somewhere in the world.

Addictions are the hallmark of being depressed.

When I got depressed I became more obsessed than normal with social media, chats (think being constantly refreshing your messages), compulsive browsing, mild drinking, mild eating garbage food.

It's a normal phenomenon: your life is shit and you look for ways to make it less worse.

Fasting from your addiction does work remarkably well: I cut off social media and chatting for a year and then gradually allowed chatting more and more in my life once I wasn't as depressed.

Replacing with healthier alternative is also a great strategy.

At that point though, is becoming a better musician any better than learning something from YouTube or becoming very skilled at a multiplayer FPS?

You can surely get addicted to exercise and practicing music, but we don't consider it as bad as gaming or watching content online.

That said, I too don't think internet addiction is as bad as other addiction. Sure, you're wasting time, like in all other addictions, but at least you're not damaging your body (Eg. By eating too much, drinking too much, doing harmful drugs, getting cancer smoking, etc).

The scary thing about this is it talks about an authoritarian measure in China like it's a positive thing to have the government interfere in people's lives to such an extent.

IMO, yes because addiction can happen as a way to cope with things that otherwise feel unbearable. The internet has so much media, you’ll never feel truly alone.

That’s my experience anyway, all anecdata.

To equate things like "sex addiction" and "internet addiction" with chemical addiction is to diminish the experiences of people who have real chemical addictions.

People with chemical addictions face days or weeks of trembling, seizures, hallucinations, physical pain and the risk of death, when they try to withdraw. To compare that kind of experience with (say) withdrawing from Faceache is to imply that physical addiction is just a failure of willpower and self-control. It isn't so.

Physical addiction has been stigmatised as a failure of self-control more-or-less forever. It is still thought of that way - even when the addiction was caused by taking drugs prescribed by a physician, for perfectly legitimate reasons. That stigma results in inadequate funding for addiction treatment, loss of jobs, loss of homes etc.

I hear the story that "addiction" is at root an addiction to the dopamine hit. I'm sorry, but I don't buy that. The dopamine hit occurs when you do something that gives you pleasure. We all do that; and if we can, we repeat it. But we don't get the shakes when we stop doing it - we just might feel crap, is all.

When famous people like Michael Douglas claim that their personal failings are the result of "addiction" to pleasure, they are sidelining/gaslighting people who really are addicted, and making it seem that the problems those real addicts face is equivalent to the problems of a person who lacks self-control.

I think that's pretty despicable.

Are you gatekeeping? Really?

If you are dependent on something to a degree that it has an adverse effect on your life, it's an addiction. Full stop. The degree or the effects will differ, but it feels like you're dismissing the suffering of one group of people because another group of people has it so much worse. But if both groups of people are suffering, even severely (even if it's "just" Internet addiction), who the fuck are you to decide its not valid suffering or addiction?

This isn't a fucking competition. Both groups of people deserve to have their suffering recognized and both groups deserve to be helped in the ways that are necessary.

Your comment is despicable and inhumane.

Edit: In absolute clarity, obviously physical and psychological addictions are different. Nobody is arguing otherwise. But that doesn't mean psychological addiction isn't an addiction. It just means it has different effects and symptoms. It doesn't mean it isn't real or that the people suffering aren't actually suffering, even if it is suffering of a different kind.

So OPs comment is just needlessly critical of psychological addiction, to the point of implying it isn't "real" addiction like people hooked on cocaine.

Honestly, it's sickening that people here are so eager to invalidate the suffering of some in favor of others, but HN doesn't surprise me in its lack of empathy for other human beings.

This sounds like quite the emotionally charged comment...

I understand the point made by the comment you're replying to, whether I agree with it or not. Perhaps you could argue your perspective without the hostility? It may encourage a worthwhile dialogue where both you and others may come to understand your difference in opinion.

I would prefer a case stated vaguely but with empathy and understanding. It encourages discussion and effective conversation.

I don't like words with perfectly clear meanings being hijacked. You end up with a word that has two meanings, and can no longer be used unambiguously.

"Decimate" used to mean to kill one in ten. It now seems to be used to mean either that one sports team soundly beat another one; or that a fighting unit was completely wiped out. The word is now useless.

"Exponential" used to be a particular mathematical function; nowadays seems to mean "grows quickly".

"Addiction" used to mean "dependent on a substance to the extent that withdrawal would result in serious symptoms". If it now means the condition of liking something so much that one is unwilling to forgo it, that's a shame. Now we need a new word for the physical condition.

I don't want anyone to have to endure suffering; but not all suffering is the result of addiction.

> Are you gatekeeping? Really?

I don't know what "gatekeeeping" means. I guess you're saying that I'm trying to control how other people describe their experience.

If that's what you're saying, then I suppose I have to put my hands up: I don't think words mean whatever you want them to mean. And when you change the meaning of a word, then forever after people will need to know which version of the word is being used whenever they encounter it.

[Version-controlled semantics? I think so. You saw it here first.]

Would you agree that gambling addiction is real? I would argue that internet addiction is more like that. Posting one more time to chase social media likes seems to hack the brain's reward system in a similar way as putting one more coin in the slot machine to try to get a big payout.

I would argue that gambling addiction is not a simple "failure of self control" - the pathology is consistent enough that I believe that it's a special kind of stimulus, such that some people will not be able to resist it if they are predisposed to fall victim to it.

The same way a smoker will become agitated and distressed if they can't have their first cigarette in the morning, a gambling addict will feel the same if they can't log into their online poker site.

In other words, it's still a chemical addiction, it's just that the chemicals are endogenous, created by your brain as the result of a behavior rather than coming from something you put in your body.

I don't think gambling is an addiction.

I suppose I could be convinced that gambling is sufficiently similar to (e.g.) alcohol addiction that withdrawal can be a serious medical problem without treatment. But I haven't heard that yet.

I think nicotine addiction is a thing; but as a smoker myself, I think the addiction aspect is overblown. The agitation and distress you mention can last for months, or even years; that's what I'd call "craving". but physical withdrawal takes 72 hours (roughly), and is never very severe - it's mainly shakiness, aches, sweats, and fluctations in body temperature. That's if you've got it really bad.

Addicts, smokers and gamblers all get cravings. I suppose sex addicts do as well; perhaps there is even a set of people who have cravings for Rum Baba.

Some people apparently get their dopamine high from fighting; I don't expect anyone from the gambling-addict or sex-addict groups to jump up and say that addiction to fighting really is an addiction. I'm told that joggers feel distress when they break their ankle, and can no longer jog. Sorry, but I 'm not prepared to call that "jogging addiction".

I'm afraid I'm not at this time prepared to accept that dopamine addiction is a thing. Dopamine is released into the brain routinely, by "normal" people who neither smoke nor gamble.

Dopamine withdrawal never results in life-threatening symptoms like seizures. Ergo, withdrawal from real addictions is not the same as dopamine withdrawal.

I don't know why you are conflating addiction with life-threatening physical withdrawal. Gambling addiction is categorized as an addiction according to the DSM, and no definition of addiction that I know of, clinical or colloquial, limits the definition of addiction to only substances which result in a life-threatening withdrawal. I think the term you are searching for is chemical dependency.

In university, I worked in a lab studying the biological mechanisms of addiction for a couple of years. There is a fairly well understood relationship between dopaminergic release in the nucleus accumbens and the formation of behavioral patterns.

This can be induced reliably with certain drugs, like stimulants, which chemically induce the activity of dopamine receptors. It can also be reliably induced endogenously, using a stochastic reward schedule. In other words, if you put a rat in a cage and give him a lever which produces a food pellet every time he presses it, he will eat until he is full, and then he will stop. If you give him a lever which produces a pellet randomly, he will press it all day, even to the point where he eats past the point of satiety, and forgets to drink water.

This response to a stochastic reward schedule has been demonstrated in all kinds of animal models, and also in humans. It's also exactly the reason why slot machines are compelling and habit forming.

You don't have to look very hard to see how a stochastic reward schedule is applied to things like mobile games, and the design of social media user journeys.

Gambling addiction is real, and social media is designed to be addictive.

I think I clarified a bit up-comment: I'm concerned with terms becoming looser; perhaps a bit obsessed.

I'm not fussed what the DSM says, especially about anything touching on psychology. I have heard that it's decisions carry a lot of weight in insurance and pharma circles.

Also:

- Suppose that there are drugs that cause pleasure by activating dopamine receptors; and

- Suppose that certain behaviours (meditation, responding to stochastic triggers) would do the same;

well, that would say nothing about the meaning of the word "addicted".

I really don't mean to conflate anything, nor diminish the problems of people with non-chemical addictions. I just regret that a word that had one meaning now seems to have acquired many.

> I'm not fussed what the DSM says, especially about anything touching on psychology. I have heard that it's decisions carry a lot of weight in insurance and pharma circles.

The DSM is literally the consensus of the American Psychiatric Association on what constitutes a mental disorder. It's not perfect, but I'm not sure exactly what makes you feel confident to brush off the scientific consensus so easily.

I also find this attitude about language a little bit funny. The way we speak is changing all the time. Would we be better off if we spoke the way we did 100 years ago, or a thousand years ago?

I'm not sure addiction has ever had the extremely narrow meaning you've applied to it, but surely the people using the term 50 years ago had a less accurate understanding of the actual pathology of addiction, so why should we defer to them? You might be able to point to a period in history where alcohol withdrawal was attributed to demonic possession.

I found this interesting, so I had a look into the etymology of the term addiction[0], and was interested to find this about the 16th century definition:

> addiction as a form of devotion at once laudable, difficult, extraordinary, and even heroic. This view has been concealed by the persistent link of addiction to pathology and modernity: current understandings of, and scholarship on, addiction connect it to globalization, medicalization, and capitalism. Surveying sixteenth-century invocations reveals instead that one might be addicted to study, friendship, love, or God.

The author states that addiction was once more synonymous with devotion - it was the act of giving over one's will and self-sovereignty to something or someone else, and letting another spirit breath into you and move you. It could refer to compulsion, but also to willing self-sacrifice. Arguably that definition is even more broad than the colloquial definition we use today, and the the main example this piece centers on - addiction to theater - is conceptually quite similar to a concept like addiction to television or addiction to social media in that it centers on a form of entertainment.

[0]: https://www.upenn.edu/pennpress/book/toc/15773_toc.html

I didn't know addiction is a competitive sport. Why is talking about one kind of addiction is diminishing to another kind?

We've always called nicotine (cigarettes), coffeine and alcohol dependence an addiction as well, so I don't think they're really redefining the term.

Even adrenaline addiction has been named in medical context, and that's produced by our bodies - not ingested/injected.

There really should be a specific term for the physical dependence you're talking about which can end in serious medical issue if the person just quits cold turkey though. It would make sense to differentiate this hard dependence.

With respect to alcohol, perhaps you don't realise that abrupt withdrawal from alcohol can result directly in death. It's a lot more serious than withdrawal from heroin.

Well, you have never been around some far progressed BPD. Some people need behaviour paterns as a release valve, otherwise there will be trembling, seizures... and risk of suicide.

Would you prefer there be a more precise word to imply addiction that comes with physical withdrawal symptoms, a real risk of death, etc?

Yes - but we used to have one. It was "addiction".

Ofcourse it's real, for me at least. I define addiction as an activity I would like to stop doing, but I find it extremely hard to do for intrinsic reasons. I find my self reaching in my pocket to my smartphone uncounciously and open Facebook/Twitter/HN after countless times I decided to stop doing so because I identified it causes harm to my well being.

Given this edvidence, I don't think there's any argument that can challenge my belief about internet addiction. Most argument I see, are semantic arguments that amount to a definition of addiction other than the one I posed above. These usually come from people who make money from this addiction and have a vested interest to muddy the waters about what addiction is. Or from people who confuse addiction with morality. Meaning, they think that if you prove something is addictive, then it means they are addict, which means they are "bad", which causes a defense mechanism that denies the whole concept of addiction. So rest assured, a certain thing can be addictive to some, but not for all. And being an addict doesn't make you morally "bad". No need to make the discussion personal.

Of course the internet is addictive, just like slot machines and cocaine. And it should be regulated as such.

Social media, just like a slot machine, or a mobile game which is engineered to rob whales of thousands of their hard earned dollars, is optimized to create the type of reward signal which will result in a behavioral loop which will keep users coming back. Using data collected from the usage patters over billions of sessions, they've been able to test and craft a user experience which affects human psychology in such a way that a huge majority of people will be extremely compelled by it, and many users will not be able to resist falling into this behavior pattern even if they try. Especially children who don't have a fully-developed prefrontal cortex yet.

We have a long history of regulating things like this. For instance, it used to be possible to buy cocaine over the pharmacy counter in the US. But at a certain point we realized that this substance was stronger than human will in many cases, that there was a lot of harm being created by it, so we regulated it.

The only open question about social media is the harm component. For instance coffee is extremely habit forming, but we don't regulate it because the social harm is negligible. But I would argue the negative externalities caused by social media has already been demonstrated. Social media incentivizes engagement, which is most reliably cultivated by content creating emotionally charged responses, outrage, and conflict. As a result, the rise in social media has led to a decrease in social cohesion, and the rampant spread of misinformation and conspiracy theories.

I suspect in 50 years we will look back at unregulated social media the same way we look back at selling cocaine at the pharmacy.

I don't know if internet addiction is real, but I know that it's 5:20 AM and I'm on Hacker News. Goodnight...

Currently giving an Internal Server Error, which given the question asked it doubles pretty well as a performance art piece.

Ha, will be up in a minute.

Cool, but I’m definitely having my HTTP 500’s come back with a question mark at the end after this.

It's up. Should also load faster, without a problem.

I consider myself a 'functional' internet addict - as long as I keep my habits in check I can use sites like HN.

However Reddit, Youtube, Twitter, Medium and most VC-funded social media products are unusable without heavy modifications. Their default settings (endless feeds, notifications, suggestions) are designed to be addictive and often trigger behavior that results in countless wasted hours.

My solution is to only use these manipulative sites on my Desktop where I can change the layout etc. Mobile apps are off-limits. This works 80% of the time. Another step is to cut down on hardware - a slower phone, no tablet, less gadgets. In my experience this last step is very effective... but it's not easy because like most people here I love technology and it certainly has its advantages too.

If you watch attentively, nowadays everything good and that give pleasure finish by being controlled and limited.

It's like that the society does not like when people reach happiness and self satisfaction.

You use too much internet that makes you less lonely and bored? Bad.

You like to go to the beach or in nature? You are destroying natural space. Bad.

You like to travel? Bad.

You like to eat? Bad.

You like to play video games? Bad.

You like to do a specific activity all the time? And it is enough for you? Bad.

Of course it's real! If it wasn't, would there be so many people scamming a quick buck to "treat" it? Of course not!

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Yeah it surely is addictive.

For a different perspective on this - You Are Not Addicted To Technology (https://www.jasonfeifer.com/episode/you-are-not-addicted-to-...). It’s a podcast with a transcript.

Summary

- there is a tendency to overuse medicalised terms. Like “I’m a bit OCD” or “I have PTSD” even when it’s clearly a gross exaggeration at best.

- Every generation had their own moral panics about addictions of the day. Examples given are “women are addicted to hobbies like bird watching”, radio addiction from the 1920s, telephone addiction from the 70s, television addiction from the 80s, Tetris addiction from the 90s. A lot of this is pathologising normal behaviour

- the major change came in 2013 with the publication of the fifth edition of DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders). For the first time gambling addiction was grouped with substance addiction. This led to an explosion of research to find other addictive behaviours. Suddenly phones were addictive, internet was addictive and so on.

- the definition of addiction they propose is “In the case of addiction, where you have a particular substance or behavior that you are obsessed with, you cannot move away from, it preoccupies all your thoughts to the point that it is destroying your occupational or social life. That's a particularly strong set of behaviors, and a particularly unique outcome.”

- phone use has increased over time, but the role of phones has changed as well. They are devices used to keep in touch with friends and family. No one is going to argue that those are negative things, or that they are destroying our occupational or social lives

- the research into technology addiction was flawed. Many studies used the methodology of previous alcohol addiction studies. So for example a person who couldn’t answer how many times they had drank in the last week - that would be an indication that they’re an alcoholic. But the same thing was used on social media addiction. If you answered “not sure” to “how many times did you check HN in the last week”, you’d be classified as an addict.

- the methodology was so flawed that when applied to people’s “addiction” to friends it came back with the same result - people are hopelessly addicted to friends. They prioritise friends over their job, they lose track of time spent with friends, they can’t say how long they spent with friends in the last month, they look forward to their next “hit” of friends as soon as they’re done with one meet-up.

- gaming might addictive on it’s own, but it could be a coping strategy by people with other underlying mental health issues. Get help for those and the gaming “addiction” subsides. just like phones, gaming can fulfill basic needs we have, like social affiliation and competition for mastery.

- “ the price of living in a world with so many good things in it, is that sometimes we have to learn these new skills, these new behaviors to moderate our use. One surefire way to not do anything, is to believe you are powerless. That's what learned helplessness is all about. By medicalizing an otherwise normal behavior and telling everybody that we're all addicted, well, then what can we do about it? Nothing. Because when you have an addiction, you have a pusher, you have a dealer, you have a substance that controls you, so to speak. And so how can you possibly do something about that? You can't. And this is why you see article saying technology is hijacking your brain and why they love using the word addiction, because addiction denotes a lack of agency.”

And that’s the crux of this entire discussion. Every time someone is telling you that you’re powerless to resist Facebook or Netflix or Xbox or HN, you internalise the message and become less likely to take steps to moderate your use.

You know who can help? Thought leaders who would be willing to give a talk for modest speaking fees. Politicians who will outlaw compelling products if you’d vote for them. Detox centres who will help you if you pay them.

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I think its a rather stupid concept to claim there is such a thing as internet addiction, because otherwise we would have to roll back time and ask equally stupid questions such as :

  - Is there such a thing as library addiction ?
  - Is there such a thing as school / university addiction ?
  - Is there such a thing as newspaper/book reading addiction ?
  - Is there such a thing as chess club addiction ?

Because as we all know, you can do the above and more on the internet.

The internet, just like your personal life, is what you make of it. Its a fabulous resource.

I think a more analogous question would be:

  - Is there such a thing as food addiction?

Food is certainly something with a lot of utility, which we need to survive, and there is a lot of healthy food out there. But we're also able to create hyper-palatable foods - like cakes and fast-food hamburgers - which effectively hack the brain's reward system: i.e. the reward signal you get from eating these foods is greatly outsized compared to their actual utility.

Some people are able to enjoy these foods in moderation, and other people cannot resist the temptation and eat these to the point that it's detrimental to their health.

I think it can be argued that the internet is a lot like that.

I think what you’re saying is that there are certain facets of the Internet one can get addicted to (such as social media), but not the Internet as a general concept. I think I agree with this, because the Internet is just too diverse.

Rather than just comparing the amount of time people spend on activities, it's important to examine the intention.

"I only want to spend an hour browsing my phone but I end up spending 8"

Did people really interact with libraries the same way? In my experience the vast majority did not. But when it comes to phones, most people report that they use their phone more than they want to.

Do you feel compelled to go to the library or to the chess club as you are talking to a friend?

I am sure the vast majority of people don’t, while so many people feel completed to check something on the Internet.

Do you feel uncomfortable if you know in advance you won’t be able to use the library or the chess club for a whole day?

> Do you feel compelled to go to the library

As someone who is not Gen-Z and remembers what life was before the internet, I can sure say that the internet beats any library I've ever spent time in.

The volume, diversity and ease of research ... all at your fingertips.

Why would anyone want to spend time trawling obscure library database systems only to find the library doesn't stock the right books or that someone has taken it on loan for an unknown period of time ?

Or worse .... microfiche. My god how that's a hellish storage medium I will not miss !

> Why would anyone want to spend time trawling obscure library database systems only to find the library doesn't stock the right books or that someone has taken it on loan for an unknown period of time ?

You're setting up a bit of strawman, I don't see anyone arguing the internet is inferior to the library, but that library usage (for example) doesn't trigger the dopamine release cycle in the way refreshing a frequently changing webpage does.

> You're setting up a bit of strawman, I don't see anyone arguing the internet is inferior to the library

I think you're missing the point a little.

Back in the day, nobody who spent 8 hours a day 5 days a week in the library would be accused of "library addiction".

But suddenly, anyone who spends a long time on the internet just gets tarnished with a brush that says "internet addict" irrespective of what they do on the internet.

I suspect that the majority of people don't spend their time posting conspiracy theories on Twitter. Which is just why lumping everybody into one "the internet" category is more damaging than it is useful.

(Before anyone takes it too seriously, the references to long hours above were purely examples and not meant to be judged or interpreted !)

I think you're the one missing the point. If someone is spending all their time online reading scholarly articles or learning skills nobody is going to accuse them of internet addiction. That does not mean internet addiction is not real.

To make an analogy, lots of people are able to enjoy drinking alcohol without issue, but that doesn't disprove the existence of alcoholism.

I believe that there are many in between the two extremes you mention for whom the draw of connection is far from benign, which is why I would not be so dismissive of addiction concerns.

Indeed. I was kinda ”library addicted” when I was young. But one had to work much harder back then to find the really good and interesting stuff. Scanning through shelf after shelf. Finding a librarian to aid me if I wanted to look at a title in the closed archive in the basement. And I couldn’t stay in the library till 11 pm since it would close at 7pm or so. When I was about to head home I couldn’t carry 60 books in my backpack. So it was much less accessible than what the Internet is. The library was good! But it was different both in quality and quantity compared to the Internet.

Thanks for bringing up friends. I find I’m compelled to talk to my friends regularly, on a daily basis. If I don’t get enough interaction with them, I get depressed. I start suffering withdrawal from lack of contact with friends. Also, like a true addict I can’t account for how much time I’ve spent with my friends in the last month. I can’t estimate how much I’ve lost career wise because I chose to prioritise this addiction instead.

You’re going to say “no no, friends are different.” That it’s actually healthy compared to let’s say, grinding WoW with friends from your guild. But it’s no different really. Why is it unhealthy if I spend hours playing WoW with friends but it’s healthy if I play football instead?

The dominant narrative on HN is that of course internet is an addiction. And that it’s pushed by evil companies that seek to profit off of it. Here’s a different perspective - the idea that it’s an addiction and that you’re powerless to solve it on your own is pushed by people who want you to turn to them to solve it. And pay for that privilege. In reality it’s not an addiction like heroin. You can beat it on your own without rehab or buying their 30 day detox program.

This is the crux of the issue. Anything can be classified as an addiction by the metrics being used, but certain things "don't count" as they've been classified as entirely good. The next question would be why.

I'd argue that it might be (though I could be wrong on this, I haven't thought through all the possibilities) because the internet is new (or at least, the latest thing), whereas books are old. New thing bad, old thing good. For example, TV is seen as bad, but nowhere near as bad as the internet, but go back a few decades, and TV addiction is the hot issue to be solved. Perhaps if you go back far enough, you will find chess addiction or books addiction to be the hot issue.

I think it's not as simple as that. Books don't have the same reward loop as the internet, so they're not "unnaturally compelling" to the same degree.

To give a counter-analogy, at some point slot machines were new, and people might have lumped them in with the same category as chess: a fun game that you can play to pass the time. But eventually it was understood that slot machines have certain intrinsic properties which make them much harder to stop playing than chess for a lot of people, and we ended up regulating them because it was causing harm to society.

This is the case with almost anything - every addictive thing is addictive to varying degrees. The fact that many people are able to enjoy let’s say, alcohol responsibly doesn’t make it less intrinsically addictive to the other folks. And let’s take another example - sugar. I have a serious weakness for it. I just can’t stop with one of anything sweet. It’s better if I just don’t eat any of it. But that’s the addict in me talking, and I shouldn’t extrapolate my experience to the rest of society who are able to enjoy sugar responsibly.

That’s where i disagree with your characterisation of the difference between chess and slot machines. It depend entirely on the person involved. Folks who can enjoy responsibly shouldn’t penalised because there are others who can’t.

Btw, if you disagree with my characterisation of sugar as addictive, you don’t need it to survive. It’s perfectly possible to live on protein and fat alone. The withdrawal from sugar is painful, but it’s doable.

> That’s where i disagree with your characterisation of the difference between chess and slot machines. It depend entirely on the person involved. Folks who can enjoy responsibly shouldn’t penalised because there are others who can’t.

Arguably we do have that with slot machines. If you want to go somewhere to gamble recreationally, you can book a trip to Vegas or Atlantic City. But we limit access because of the potential for harm. We don't let kids gamble, and I'm certain if every gas station was allowed to have a couple slot machines inside, we'd see a lot more people throwing their life savings away because their brains aren't wired in a way which lets them resist the compulsion.

There's a spectrum in terms of how addictive things are, and how much harm they do which we use to determine how much we as a society deem it is responsible to limit access to these things in order to protect people and society as a whole.

For instance, coffee is quite addictive, but it's not vary harmful, so access is pretty much free. Sugar is pretty addictive, but only slightly harmful, so it largely gets a pass. Cigarettes and alcohol are addictive and moderately harmful, so we keep them away from kids and tax them to make them more expensive and less attainable. Hard liquor is more harmful than beer and wine, so a lot of places restrict access to specific stores to make it harder to come by.

And it might be the case that some people can enjoy heroin responsibly, but it's so strongly addictive, and so incredibly harmful that we make it illegal to obtain it at all - even that means "penalising" the few folks who could potentially enjoy it responsibly.

I don't know where social media fits on that spectrum, but it is addictive, and it is at least worth considering how much harm is being done and whether we should think about regulating it.

How are you measuring harm? By number of people who die? The cost to the healthcare system? If so I reckon the number of people suffering from diabetes vastly outnumbers those suffering from cirrhosis of the liver. Treating these people costs a lot.

Certainly we should restrict access to sugar, or at least tax it. But in most places, such policies are non starters.

You may be right about the harm with sugar. I think it is probably way more toxic than we give it credit for, but it's difficult to imagine any kind of regulation around it since it's so ingrained in society. When NYC for example tried to tax sodas there was massive backlash. When a smoker gets lung cancer, we tend to blame tobacco, but when someone gets diabetes we blame the individual's lack of self control. That's probably not entirely justified given the addictive potential of refined sugar.

But I think you're undercounting the harm caused by alcohol. There are diseases of abuse to consider, but the damage caused by alcohol is often more acute: traffic accidents and acts of violence are made much more likely by alcohol consumption.

Similarly, I think the harm caused by social media is also under-counted. In it's current state, it seems to cause an increase in the spread of misinformation, and a decrease in political stability and social cohesion.

> Books don't have the same reward loop as the internet

That's quite a broad statement to make, as reading a PDF online is just as much a part of the internet as social media or anything else. Not every website has the same reward loop, not even close.

But I'll assume your talking specifically about social media. Whilst that's a bit of a different conversation, I would argue that books are no more "naturally compelling" than social media. Something is only compelling because it triggers a dopamine hit or whatever, the only thing I can think of which would "naturally" do that is eating, drinking and maybe sleeping. But something being unnaturally compelling isn't a bad thing.

> at some point slot machines were new

Of course I'm not saying anything that is new is not addictive and we just don't know it yet, some things are. My point is that nearly every big leap forwards in technology or entertainment is branded as addictive until the next thing comes along. A few of those things are indeed proven to be addictive, others are used many generations later as the "pure" form of entertainment

Do you consciously want to stop talking with your friends but find you can't? If not, then you are not compelled.

Your argument is a strawman argument. Calling something addictive, does not equate to saying that if you stop doing it, you get hurt. With this definition living /breathing/eating would be called addiction. That's not a very useful definition, and that's not the meaning of addiction.

Ease of access is a part of maintaining addiction. There's a difference between having cancer-sticks magically appear in your pocket whenever you want one, and having to go to the store to get it, for example.