There are a few interpretations but I think you are mixing "getting over it" and "getting over them". Getting over the death is very different to getting over the person.
>Your loved one will always be with you, in your memories, in your life experiences. If you get a smile while thinking of the things you did together, then they are not really dead.
Exactly, this is the point you can get to when you are able to get over their death - you can remember the experiences rather than just experiencing grief.
>Your loved one will always be with you, in your memories, in your life experiences. If you get a smile while thinking of the things you did together, then they are not really dead.
Exactly, this is the point you can get to when you are able to get over their death - you can remember the experiences rather than just experiencing grief.