I'm an incel. It doesn't have to be sexist. I don't have any specific feelings towards women. I just know I don't get an ROI on investing in dating. So I just invest in my self for my self and allow myself one sexual interaction a month through paying for it like a service. I'm available for dating or relationships but have no expectations. It's healthy enough.
I interpret it as in the dating market I am effectively involuntarily celibate, perhaps there’s a more accurate subculture but I love incel tears. I also like the edginess. It’s a banned word on twitch.