I'm not clear on what you're mean. On Bumble, women are specifically supposed to type out the first message in a conversation, which is what makes it unique from other apps where either party may send the first message. If the woman does not send a message within some period, the match disappears. (This is how it was several years ago. I assume it is similar.)

Supposedly this makes it better, although I disagree. Many women adapt to that in the same way that men adapted to it in the OP, which is to say, they start sending out generic, shitty messages like, "Hi."