A personal connection with someone, not an entire ethnic group / race of people. I really have doubts that you would say it another way.
“This kind of insensitivity always happens when I deal with white people.”
Whether its accurate or not, this comes across as a chore, as if there is a checkbox of trying that I get around to on occasion. As opposed to just socializing with people.
and the second bullet point doesn't even apply as thats not how you used it.
You should really engage in deeper introspection of your interactions to see why this is a chore for you.
“This kind of insensitivity always happens when I deal with white people.”
Whether its accurate or not, this comes across as a chore, as if there is a checkbox of trying that I get around to on occasion. As opposed to just socializing with people.
and the second bullet point doesn't even apply as thats not how you used it.
You should really engage in deeper introspection of your interactions to see why this is a chore for you.