Where can you get decent ECC ram for a reasonable price? I was on the hunt recently for ECC RAM for my new desktop and I gave up and pulled the trigger on low latency non-ECC RAM. Availability seems to be pretty terrible at the moment.
You can get ECC UDIMMs from Supermicro. They are rebranded Micron DIMMs. ECC memory is not going to go as high of frequencies as you might be looking for. They will only go up to the officially validated speed of the CPUs. https://store.supermicro.com/16gb-ddr4-mem-dr416l-cv02-eu26....
The rated speeds are not as high, but ECC memory can be overclocked just as non-ECC; memory overclock support is mostly up to the motherboard. I have some DDR4-2666 ECC overclocked to 3200 MHz with slightly tighter timings on TRX40.
I picked one up at the Minneapolis Microcenter about a week ago at near (or less) than MSRP. I'd been looking for any stock since launch, and that was the first one I'd seen show up in stock and queued up for it. (Same day as a bunch of video cards showed up, so a bit less competition.)
They have an online checkin app that they use to order the queue. You see it show up in stock, add yourself to the queue, and get an early enough spot - show up. No need to wait in the cold. (ymmv on weather, but up here... can be cold)