I think the technically correct answer to your question is "door number three".
I'd watch out, though, because if I were blader I'd be sorely tempted to answer by punching you in the face. :) It's not like you didn't receive fair warning!
It's a fallacy to think that you can avoid all scalability problems. You can't. If you're successful, you will have scalability issues, period. So yes, since the problem is inevitable so long as you're successful, it is a nice problem to have.
It's a bit like having a cold. That's practically inevitable at some point in your life if you're alive. Well, I'd rather be alive with a cold than dead, even though having a cold sucks. If you don't want scalability issues, they're very easy to avoid: just build a crappy service. One of my start-ups never had any scalability issues, and never had a stampede of users either.
Scalability issues are a very nice problem to have.