I live in Portugal (moved from Spain) and yes, that is true on both counts. I find it difficult to live with people who get upset over everything though. I would would say 'grow a pair' but that would not be correct... My grandfather says 'if you survived through a real war you would not care about this crap', but that would not be correct (and I think that's a bit over the top, but he survived 2 world wars)...