lol, I did not expect this. I submitted this myself yesterday and it got 2 upvotes.

To the people with suggestions, especially jdsully: thank you! I will probably give these a shot.

To the people who say "blah blah someone who doesnt know x giving an opinion on y blah blah", ok, what is wrong with sharing an experience? I'm not sure how to interpret this other than you take what I write way too seriously? It's an explorative piece...

Edit: I wanted to mention too that it's really cool reading other's stories around this topic. Thank you for sharing!