also remember that the person doing the harsh reviews is probably suffering from developer defensiveness and anxiety too. A strong attack can be cover for a weak defence.
I heard this from a therapist: "everyone is just trying to feel safe and loved". It really helps me understand and empathise with people in conflict situations ("how is this action helping this person to feel safe and loved?"). It might help with understanding the code reviews too ;)
I heard this from a therapist: "everyone is just trying to feel safe and loved". It really helps me understand and empathise with people in conflict situations ("how is this action helping this person to feel safe and loved?"). It might help with understanding the code reviews too ;)