Both of them give you less flexibility than is necessary to achieve highly efficient use of all threads on a multiprocessor system. For that, you'll need something like a pool of event loops using async/await. This is the system most common in high performance networking in C++, C, and Rust.
Erlang and Go both sacrifice efficiency to improve maintainability and safety by offering a model that allows you to approach concurrency from a more synchronous mindset. Erlang in particular goes beyond Go in that the Actor model is considerably easier to avoid deadlocks and other concurrency bugs in at the expense of a much more opinionated system. Erlang is also less focused on reducing average latency as much as keeping latency predictable at scale.
Long story short, Erlang, Go, and the rest are not apples to apples comparisons, and it takes investment in each language to understand the tradeoffs and use cases for each. You should also view them holistically, as in, what language can my team support, and will the wins from Erlang's message queues outweigh the smaller community, or will Go's mid tier performance be enough to avoid writing on top of the low level libevent and building a custom thread pool or fine tuning Go's scheduler.
Both of them give you less flexibility than is necessary to achieve highly efficient use of all threads on a multiprocessor system. For that, you'll need something like a pool of event loops using async/await. This is the system most common in high performance networking in C++, C, and Rust.
Erlang and Go both sacrifice efficiency to improve maintainability and safety by offering a model that allows you to approach concurrency from a more synchronous mindset. Erlang in particular goes beyond Go in that the Actor model is considerably easier to avoid deadlocks and other concurrency bugs in at the expense of a much more opinionated system. Erlang is also less focused on reducing average latency as much as keeping latency predictable at scale.
Long story short, Erlang, Go, and the rest are not apples to apples comparisons, and it takes investment in each language to understand the tradeoffs and use cases for each. You should also view them holistically, as in, what language can my team support, and will the wins from Erlang's message queues outweigh the smaller community, or will Go's mid tier performance be enough to avoid writing on top of the low level libevent and building a custom thread pool or fine tuning Go's scheduler.