> Sean’s favorite medium is video games; he plays for four hours after school and twice that on weekends.
I don't get it. My son would certainly do the same if given the choice, but he is allowed to play 2 hours a day on week-end, and 0 minutes the rest of the week. He's not supposed to be in command. And he hasn't got a mobile phone, either, because he simply doesn't need it. This is good parenting 101, setting limits.
To an extend yes, but how old is your son? At some point children needs to be handed more responsibility (and it will _always_ be before you think they are ready for it), because while they will make mistakes it is better that they make these mistakes while you are there to help them clean up the mess and the mess isn't too big.
But more importantly than that one day they will be old enough that you can no longer set the limits for what they should do, which they will not be able to handle unless they have had their freedom handed to them gradually.
13. He's getting responsible enough; we don't need to tell him what's reasonable and what isn't, so the rules are now subject to interpretation, which wasn't the case at 9 :)
Allison Miller sends and receives 27,000 texts a month, carrying on multiple text conversations at a time.
Assuming that means she sends 27k/2 = 13,500 SMS per month, and she sleeps 8 hours a day, that means in a 30 day month (480 waking hours), she's sending 1 message every other minute while awake. 13,500/480 ~= 28.1 per hour.
I only send/receive about 500-1000 texts a month, but I noticed the vast majority are "alert-style" SMSes (e.g. Google Voice notifications, Twitter user subscriptions, etc.).
What I find odd is that most of the kids profiled have really good grades. I mean, Vishal's friend has straight A's (even though he wishes to do better on SATs) and yet he's on facebook all the time? And, Allison the texter has only 3 B's on her report card?
And, the main character study, Vishal, won't finish his Summer take-home book, but he'll slave away for two hours perfecting a few seconds of his demo reel for college? That's not being lazy or digitally distracted; to me, it's academic arbitrage. And, he's still making A's and B's. What's more, if that article is at all correct, Vishal was taking AP courses _in his junior year_. In my day (yes, back when we trudged up hill in 10 feet of snow to and from school) AP was only for seniors.
These kids are way ahead of the game. I'd venture a guess and say they aren't really representative of most kids. Take this article out of silicon valley and put it smack dab in the middle of the US fruited plains to see how digitally distracted the mainstream youth has become and if it really does a detriment.
I don't get it. My son would certainly do the same if given the choice, but he is allowed to play 2 hours a day on week-end, and 0 minutes the rest of the week. He's not supposed to be in command. And he hasn't got a mobile phone, either, because he simply doesn't need it. This is good parenting 101, setting limits.