More fundamentally, valuations are a metric on stock price and shares outstanding. The latter, too, is a metric on a company’s charter, outstanding (and anticipated) warrant and option and conversion obligations, et cetera.
The concrete quantum is the trade. Everything else is educated conjecture.
Companies (as well most all things) are only worth as much as people are willing to pay for it.
When a company like SpaceX raises funds at a particular valuation, you can be sure that they have done a rigorous analysis to figure out what is an acceptable valuation for their target buyers.
That's precisely right. Because that valuation is the price someone was willing to pay, which makes it a better estimate than a "reasonable" number which isn't backed by anyone's actual willingness to invest at that price.