The question you are looking for is much deeper than "people or code?".
You are really looking to figure out who you are and what you care about in life. And this is not a simple answer. People usually have many parts/areas of their "self" that they need to define as time flows on. Some of areas include spirituality, profession, service, fitness, family, etc.
You have to decide what areas of your life are important to you and from there, decide if the current state of those areas are what you'd like. If not, you need to work on that area. You don't need a life revolution even though it may feel like it. You need evolution. Keep parts of your self that you like. Reinvent the rest.
Reminds me of a quote that goes something like this: "Life is like a movie... You can either play an 'extra' in your life... or you can be the lead character."
You are really looking to figure out who you are and what you care about in life. And this is not a simple answer. People usually have many parts/areas of their "self" that they need to define as time flows on. Some of areas include spirituality, profession, service, fitness, family, etc.
You have to decide what areas of your life are important to you and from there, decide if the current state of those areas are what you'd like. If not, you need to work on that area. You don't need a life revolution even though it may feel like it. You need evolution. Keep parts of your self that you like. Reinvent the rest.
Reminds me of a quote that goes something like this: "Life is like a movie... You can either play an 'extra' in your life... or you can be the lead character."