I think the opposite. Every one of the effects (and more) that she decided happened too early before her kids were "emotionally ready", the high school experience smashed down on me like a meteor strike.

A link to my tribe in my pocket making me feel even a bit less than a complete outsider would have been a godsend.

Bbs's saved my ass while my parents fretted that "all that time on the computer doing god knows what" would ruin me for life so what do I know?