> You just explained why you don't like going out; it's because you don't like being in situations with lots of people around.

It's not just that I don't like it, it's super exhausting to me. I literally start feeling depressed and lose the will to live if I spend too much time around people. The less time I have to spend with people, the happier I feel.

Gotcha. I used to be like that but something in me flipped and now I generally like to be around people...although I definitely need "alone time" or I get cranky and irritable.

I think the other reason was more important... People see chores as work, and have more enjoyable things they could be doing.

There's a certain zen in being able to enjoy doing your chores. I think learning to change yourself so you don't dread chores is important self-work.

That too. I always feel rushed when I do chores because it all feels like a massive waste of my limited free time.