Perl started with Henry Spenser's regular expression library, which was written in the mid-1980s. That got used in a lot of places, and may have been used in sed. It includes backreferences. I don't know what predates that.
Perl used that as a starting place and began adding extensions such as the difference between .* and .*?.
So using "non-regular thing" as a regular expression predates Perl. But the dialect we standardized on with the features people now expect is due to Perl's influence.
