All I can say is that I feel sorry for you in the US.
In Norway, I get 16MBit DSL at my cottage (yes, half an hours walk from the nearest dirt road). We don't even have any net neutrality laws, and there are only two nationwide DSL providers.
The general bandwidth you get is irrelevant. The central question from the perspective of net neutrality is whether there is any traffic shaping upstream of you.
