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The parent is great advice for dates and for life (is there a distinction, really?)

> go on a date just to have a good time with a girl, not just to sleep with her - Be present with no expectations except creating a good time for yourself - others will be attracted to this

>share the costs - Sharing is caring - don't pay for something (in this case, her drinks & dinner) unless you want to

> dont be gentlemanly at the end of the night. She's a person too and if she's not interested in getting laid she'll just say no - Assume responsibility for what you want, and assume she'll take responsibility for what she wants

> be confident. She's on a date with you already!! - Act like you've been there before... get out of your head and into the present moment.




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