I find "as the bishop said to the actress" to be a much classier version of "that's what she said", plus it can go both ways (as the actress said to the bishop...)
The title makes this a lot less interesting for our female readers, I'd guess. Please consider other people that don't share your humour when creating/sharing titles.
Despite your concern, however valid, it did not deter the female author of the paper.
Honestly, anyone who is offended by the identification of this paper by a common related phrase, probably does not have a career in science or software that somebody didn't give them out of pity.
