The exact opposite is true actually. Apple fanboyism is so strong that everyone including you chimes in to say “Windows does it too” except Windows does not do it and hasn’t for years. People love hating on Windows and Apple is a religion.
I strongly disagree with this. If I were donating a large sum to a non-profit that helps poor children, I would absolutely earmark it with a stipulation that it must be used to help poor children who grew up as I did (poor, no opportunities for other aid/scholarships because, well we all know why).
In any nonprofit or mentorship situation, I always make sure to reach the children who grew up like me because they truly have no means of assistance.
Aren't you already choosing to donate to a non-profit that is focused on this mission? If they're mission-focused, they presumably know how to best spend their money to support that mission.
Sorry if I sound harsh, but I wonder if such a donation will be purely to satisfy one's ego. We give donation because we believe in the cause and feel good by donating. When I give donation, I give it unrestricted and sometimes even if it is not tax deductible.
Are they? Or is it sitting there in an account labelled "children named Tom who live in a town of between 10,000 and 11,000 people and got a C in math in 2003"?