Answer: You CAN NOT and no amount of money, parties, socializing
will ever work.
Loneliness is an emotion, you can never get rid of your emotions,
but you can control them. Some people more so than others. I'm never
alone anymore, because exactly what is quoted below from avensec
in the thread.
Quote from avensec:
"Personal anecdote: No amount of community would have helped me
feel like I wasn't alone, because I needed the world around me
to provide some sense of my self-worth. It felt counterintuitive,
but for me, I had to learn to be alone. Only then could I feel
like I wasn't alone. It all came down to attachment theory and
self-worth."
Here is list of available software from my hosting company, $150/yr,
for Forums, and Social Networking. Another I had on my own server
was Citadel, (citadel.org).
Good luck, because most people use there cell phones now days and a
lot of sw like those listed are just not meant for that format.
Location: Billings, MT, USA
Remote: Yes
Willing to relocate: No
Technologies: Core Java.
Résumé/CV: https://dandymadeproductions.com
Email:
Interested in working to help resolve bugs in code. Willing to
except compensation based on each bug solved. Retired and willing
to work cheap for the right project that needs to clean things
up with no set deadline.
For a native application for the desktop Java fits the need for
cross platform. Yea its GUI is rather plain, but it has all the
components required.
I have a Java application that was built in 1999, still works
on Mac, Linux, and Windows. I have built some JavaFX apps, but
they have had problems rendering on some machines, so I have
abandon that avenue. Besides it appears to be designed for the
web, and was just a pain for layouts.
For years I have been working a Java framework that allows for
quick building of basic applications. The framework comes with
database access, SQLite included, and a deployments and what
is now called package management.
I have been tracking my expenses in one form or another for
my entire life. How long well before we had computers and I
used columnar paper spreadsheets. Its always been a pain,
Excel, whatever when you need data at the end of the year.
Now I use a database with my own application that handles
table entries just like a spread sheet, has analysis, and
charting, import/export of data.
Need income tracking, project time tracking whatever add a
table(s).
It will read whatever schema you define and works with MySQL,
MariaDB, SQLite and others. If you want something a little
extra then it supports plugins. Make your own. Videos, docs,
and plugin tutorial see website. Its free open source.
Location: Montana
Remote: Yes
Willing to relocate: Not as this time.
Technologies: Java, Python, Database Interfacing, Applications.
Resume/CV: If Requested.
Email: Email: danap at the website.
GitHub: https://github.com/danap
LinkedIn: No.
Upwork: No
Website: https://dandymadeproductions.com
I'm interested in desktop applications that interface to various
databases, servers for processing information locally on personal
systems that now revel anything scientist, engineers, researchers,
etc only dreamed of having as individuals 20 years ago.
The model being followed now of an all encompassing web browser
server processing service is introducing complexities that need
not occur. Let alone the privacy implications that are being
compromised. Steam seems to be one of the only companies designing
otherwise, though their application still looks HTML based. That
is the type of softwork work that interests me.
Loneliness is an emotion, you can never get rid of your emotions, but you can control them. Some people more so than others. I'm never alone anymore, because exactly what is quoted below from avensec in the thread.
Quote from avensec:
"Personal anecdote: No amount of community would have helped me feel like I wasn't alone, because I needed the world around me to provide some sense of my self-worth. It felt counterintuitive, but for me, I had to learn to be alone. Only then could I feel like I wasn't alone. It all came down to attachment theory and self-worth."