I lived in San Fran back in 2012 for 6 months. I personally didn't feel unsafe; I'm a big guy and have a physical presence so I understand why others may feel unsafe.
So why did I leave?
There were a few events that really upset me. 1) I almost stepped on a shit snake some human left outside my building. 2) A homeless person stopped in front of a mother and child to urinate. 3) The weather sucked; cold and hot.
I went there for the tech scene, but it was just too dirty for me to want to live there.
Surely the "general welfare" is still being violated by the shit on the street and homeless people urinating in public, whether or not the shit or the piss actually got on your person.
I find it very interesting that people can't put aside political views and speak about whether or not having a consumption tax, in their opinion, is a good or bad idea when compared to the current system.
This question isn't about a persons view of Biden or Trump.
I think kstenerud did a great job at expressing their views without having to speak about politics.
Is this an indicator at how toxic social media has become and how people have become addicted to arguing vs. having a discussion?
I was thinking about how a consumption tax aka Fair Tax does have some benefits, but in the case that kstenerud pointed out, depending on the percentage of the tax, it could hurt the poor. For instance, if a gallon of milk now goes for $20, it's going to hurt the lower class.
I do agree with kstenerud that such a tax could hurt the poorest people. This begs the question of is there a way to introduce such a tax that allows the poor to transition into a Fair Tax? e.g., Allowing people making under X 2 years not to pay any income taxes?
Hopefully those of you with strong political opinions take it easy on this thread because honestly, it's like the smell of your own shit... no one really wants to sniff it ;)
> I do agree with kstenerud that such a tax could hurt the poorest people. This begs the question of is there a way to introduce such a tax that allows the poor to transition into a Fair Tax? e.g., Allowing people making under X 2 years not to pay any income taxes?
Fair Tax addresses that point with the rebate to alleviate the impact on the poverty-stricken. It is debatable as to whether this is a fair solution; OTOH it is also debatable as to whether the current system is fair to the poor.
It’s not so clear that Milk would go to $20 a gallon under the Fair Tax and not so in the current regime ( Sudden Inflation Now Syndrome seems mostly unchecked ).
> A paycheck, also spelled paycheque, pay check or pay cheque
"Oh no, the top comment on my question makes me look stupid. Quick, let me make a pedantic correction so I can look smart. Let me also ignore the substance of the comment so I don't have to re-examine my priors."
When asked a loaded question, I point out its loaded before answering it. I could be wrong though. Perhaps you were merely ignorant of what “politics” means. In that case, I’m sorry for calling your question loaded. I hope you’ve found this educational.
First, seek professional help even if it's remote. Suicide is never a good answer. In fact, it would just hurt those you love about deeply.
Second, the best of your life isn't behind you because you're 43. I say this with 100% certainty because I'm your age. Remember, the meaning of life, the universe, and everything is 42 and that was just last year. That's right baby, nerd joke!
Immutability is great for programming, but not as life advice. You can change, the biggest challenge starts with changing your mindset. I know that's hard and requires a) consistent affirmation in know your worth and ability. b) it takes time, but fighting and pushing for growth is the meaning of life. c) You're the same person you were as a youth, but you're lying to yourself about self-worth.
It's not that you don't want to live, it's that you don't want to continue with your behavior and mindset; but you're uncertain of how to start the cycle of change.
Here's what I do daily.
1. Wake up - get washed, vitamins, eat plant based, kefir, scrub my balls until they shine.
2. Work - On my own projects, work for my client, etc
3. Go for a walk - I don't care if it's colder outside than my ex-girlfriend. I go out!
4. Talk to people - Socialize and talk to people. Do it without fear - I will anything to anyone in a light hearted and joyful way.
5. Affirmations - each day I tell myself about the good I've done in life and how things changed.
I can tell you for certainty that life was not kind to me, but I refuse to let life win. If you want someone to talk to, someone who has felt the way you have, who went from doing well to giving it all up, to regaining it, to feeling like giving up physically, etc.. let me know.
You have a moment in your life to turn this all around and show your family, friends, and yourself how you're a bad motherfucker you are. I love the struggle and I turned it into a game.
Honestly, seek professional help and if you like - we can talk. I'm very transparent about my life with everyone.
P.S., Money doesn't change these feelings. I know that sounds like bullshit, but it's true from my experience.
Why not pour yourself into something you love professionally and take some risk. Eventually you may develop a mindset that you're too old to task risks in life.
Sorry, I'm not big on traditional education since it's just a business model that locks people into debt they can't escape.
Life is the best university there is out there. Its admission is just time and effort.
Note: I'm a high school drop out so don't pay me no mind :)
Hi, so I hope anything I say is useful to you and not just a bunch of random shit spewing from my keyboard.
I don't want to echo what others have already said, e.g, part of the process is luck, so I'll share my approach.
I'm a high school drop out, so I couldn't rely on my educational background. Instead, I just focus on attributes that are core to who I am.
1. Show your potential; early in your career, people hire for what potential you have.
2. Be calm, but show how hungry you are to learn and grow. Don't come off scattered brained or all over the fucking place.
3. Remember, most job qualifications tend to represent the perfect candidate, but that's rare so don't let it discourage you. Just don't be stupid and apply for roles that are clearly outside of your experience. e.g., must have 10 years of programming in Java.
4. When you get a job that's technical, make the leap. Commit to what you want and don't distract yourself out of fear.
5. Always be networking, but don't network in a way that makes you look desperate.
Lastly, enjoy this experience. It's on temporary and just because someone says no, it doesn't mean you're a piece of shit. Finding a job is like dating - just because someone says they like you, it doesn't mean you'll be happy and just because someone rejects you, it doesn't mean you won't find someone.
