If you are living in California, working for startups and can even _consider_ daycare then you are in a vastly different situation from where I live, where teen moms and being poor are the norm.
In which, depending on the state, they probably qualify for subsidized daycare.
Over here, often it's grandma taking care of the kids and the $3000 refund check the typically-single mother gets go to drugs and tattoos.
If you are going to say stuff like that, make a real assertion and back it up, or leave it out. I have no idea what "often" means to you, and I have no clue the veracity of your claim.
I'm working class and marriage and raising kids aren't even a reasonable thing to consider. I'd love more than anything to have a family. My only solution is to find a way to earn more money.
Didn't you earlier say it saved money?
I wish it could be properly explained to white middle-class folks that in most cases "born poor stays poor"
I agree with you wholeheartedly here. But what does that have to do with what we are talking about?
In which, depending on the state, they probably qualify for subsidized daycare.
Over here, often it's grandma taking care of the kids and the $3000 refund check the typically-single mother gets go to drugs and tattoos.
If you are going to say stuff like that, make a real assertion and back it up, or leave it out. I have no idea what "often" means to you, and I have no clue the veracity of your claim.
I'm working class and marriage and raising kids aren't even a reasonable thing to consider. I'd love more than anything to have a family. My only solution is to find a way to earn more money.
Didn't you earlier say it saved money?
I wish it could be properly explained to white middle-class folks that in most cases "born poor stays poor"
I agree with you wholeheartedly here. But what does that have to do with what we are talking about?