The only story I've heard about Apple lunches was the one where a guy (overweight by his own description) bought a big muffin on campus. Jobs was in the vicinity. Saw the guy. Didn't say anything but gave a stare of death at both the guy and the muffin. Next day, there were no muffins to be found at Apple.
Sorry I can't find the original link for the story.
It seems like a lot of fuss about nothing to me, especially now that we can see it in hindsight.
There was a big fuss about this issue and then a few weeks later everyone went on about their business, using their phone and enjoying using it without any real problems for a few years. And then they got a new iPhone because they liked the first one so much.